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Dating HELL Q&A

Shannon Goertz

Question: When a guy tells you “you have nothing to offer” 🤯 That’s what I was told yesterday. That’s a first. I’m 45 years old, financially stable and I have a beautiful house that he stayed in for months at a time for free, while I was even watching his misbehaved dog. Never took me out on dates. I wanted to go on dates so badly, that I even offered to pay. What in the world is wrong in this dating world? What in the actual F!!?? And what’s wrong with me, for even entertaining and staying with someone that treats me like this.


Answer: What’s wrong with you? You are EXACTLY where you need to be because I have a feeling that the emotion coming out of you right now is because you damn well know what you’re worth or for the first time ever, you’re starting to develop your “self-worth”. These type of people for both men and women end up being our greatest teachers. I am willing to bet that you’re not going to put up with a lack of dating (you deserve it) and a great number of other things from anyone else from here on out. My point is that your arriving right on time.


The best thing I see here is the question you have at the bottom? What’s wrong with me?


The only people I see… THE ONLY People I see from these support groups that never find their happily-ever-after are the ones that are always blaming the other person.


There’s an ancient Chinese proverb that I used to teach people regarding this matter all the time.


“He who blames others has a long way to go on his journey, the person who blames himself is halfway there, and the person who blames no one has arrived.”


You have great things ahead of you. Get excited, 😉


SG

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