I still remember the first time I discussed in a divorce social media forum whether or not we all get a “happy ending”. I was in a hurry. I shouldn’t have answered immediately, but there are no accidents. I said we did. Low and behold this guy blasts me for my comments saying that he has seen his aunt get into abusive relationship after abusive relationship until she finally passed away. He’s right. There is a specific category of people who never find their happily ever. It is those who do not possess introspection because they are doomed to date the same person over and over again in a different body. So, what do we do if there’s a monster in the closet? 👺 Turn the light on. 💡 And the one under the bed? 👹 We look. If you won’t look, it remains lurking in the most unexpected place. (your romantic relationships) this is the value of introspection. And what is so silly about people wasting money on those scams to help you find your romantic interest. (seminars for example on what a man or a woman truly wants.) 🤦🏻♂️ You will open the door to your dreams on the day that you realize that it was never about the other person. It was only about you. Your inner peace becomes imperative because it is reflecting your outer world.
A Happy Ending?
Shannon Goertz
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