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How to find your soulmate
A man sits under a tree and wonders,"Where is the one for me?"A woman watches the wind blow through the mountains and whispers,"Why do I...
Shannon Goertz
Apr 9, 20258 min read


Is it real Love?
Real “Love”, cannot be obtained by effort.
Shannon Goertz
Mar 22, 20251 min read


Abuse: The Terminology
Education is the way through and the way out of your current dating pool. (change explain) These definitions provide a comprehensive...
Shannon Goertz
Mar 6, 202510 min read


Your Relationship Eulogy
This might seem dark at first, but make sure you get to the end… because I have a question. What if you had to write your own eulogy? I...
Shannon Goertz
Feb 24, 20251 min read


You’re Ear is a Womb
YOUR EAR ... IS A WOMB. What you listen to will eventually be conceived and born into your reality. CHOSE CAREFULLY who you listen to....
Shannon Goertz
Feb 24, 20251 min read


It saved my life…
From a survivor: I watched a documentary tonight. One that helped saved my life almost 4 years ago. And as thankful as I am to be here...
Shannon Goertz
Feb 21, 20251 min read


Keanu Reeves (Loneliness)
Keanu Reeves once shared: "Someone recently told me they felt sorry for single people because they thought being single meant being alone...
Shannon Goertz
Feb 3, 20251 min read


Love your Fate
Nietzsche was the one who did the job for me. At a certain moment in his life,the idea came to him of what he called 'the love of your...
Shannon Goertz
Jan 31, 20251 min read


Holidays are so hard…
Q: Why are the holidays so hard? A: Because we have such strong traditions and such loving memories around the holidays that ignite all...
Shannon Goertz
Dec 16, 20241 min read


The comeback kid ❤️🩹
You’re not alone. Just a story of resilience: I begged, on my knees I begged him. I did everything he asked me to do while he actively...
Shannon Goertz
Dec 13, 20241 min read


Monsters & Empaths
On my website, you will notice that I have a tab specifically addressing narcissism as the way I saw it going back to 2015. I compared...
Shannon Goertz
Dec 6, 20244 min read


EMDR Therapy
So I had someone in group suffering terribly for this last year. (Constant panic attacks, bouts of depression, fear, anxiety, etc) then…...
Shannon Goertz
Nov 9, 20241 min read


Dating HELL Q&A
Question : When a guy tells you “you have nothing to offer” 🤯 That’s what I was told yesterday. That’s a first. I’m 45 years old,...
Shannon Goertz
Oct 30, 20242 min read


emotional sobriety
Rule 15: watch your addictions In my book, I voices strong opinion that I believe that addiction is the most missed diagnosis within the...
Shannon Goertz
Oct 28, 20245 min read


Divorce- Losing family and friends
Q: After my divorce, being married for 23 years, my ex had a live in girlfriend within a few months. Although our divorce was amicable,...
Shannon Goertz
Oct 27, 20242 min read


Predicting the future of a romantic relationship
Someone posted in one of the forums I follow that they were upset within three days of having sexual relations, the guy completely...
Shannon Goertz
Oct 23, 20243 min read


Your vibration & karma
What is Karma Yoga? Every action (karma) that we perform puts out a vibration of energy—leading to happiness or suffering. The practice...
Shannon Goertz
Oct 16, 20242 min read


Vilomah (against the natural order of things)
I was thinking one day about how they call a female, a widow or a male a widower… and I started wondering what did they call it when you lose a child. I found an ancient Sanskrit word that meant “against the natural order of things”. That’s it. The following is a message from some of my personally who who lost her son not too long ago. I find people don’t mention Benjamin because they either don’t really care how I’m doing/feeling or they may be afraid I’m going to fall apart
Shannon Goertz
Aug 22, 20243 min read
Pain’s Exit Door
Doors out of suffering…. Dr. Jordan Peterson said, “the way I see it, you should lead a life so full of meaning that suffering becomes a...
Shannon Goertz
Aug 11, 20242 min read
Alimony Argument $$
Q: my divorce leaves me feeling defeated and on the verge of just waiving the white flag. I know it’s not my STBX responsibly to still...
Shannon Goertz
Jul 25, 20242 min read
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